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Friday, December 30, 2011

Off to Beijing

Holt called me today to let me know that my paperwork is on its way to China.
I am thrilled that is will arrive before the year's end.  I am so amazed how quickly .everything got processed (especially considering my paperwork was sent over Christmas).  Six weeks from now I will receive a letter of acceptance.  I will send that off to the USCIS for final immigration approval.  The USCIS will send it to the US consulate in China, upon which my travel dates will be granted.  This whole process should take five to nine months.

I can now picture myself in China in the spring.  Now is the time to pull out the Rosetta Stone Chinese CD.

Tuesday, December 20, 2011

The End is in Sight!

When you are waiting for something of great importance, the wait can seem eternal!  Today my dossier came back from the Chinese Consulate adorned with colorful Chinese stamps.  These stamps are stamps signifying approval of all I have worked these past six months.

I am celebrating that these documents arrived before I leave for Chicago.All I  have to do is photocopy these and send my dossier to Holt International in Eugene.  The home office will take up to three weeks for final processing and then it is off to Beijing!



"I will go before you and level the mountains.  I break down gates of bronze and cut through bars of iron.  I will give you the treasure of darkness, riches stored in secret places, so that you may know that I am the Lord, God of Israel, who summons you by name"  Isaiah 45:2-3

Thursday, December 8, 2011

We love you Yi Mei


It has been delightful to watch my student's get excited about Yi Mei's arrival.  They have started bringing things from home for Yi Mei.  I was very touched when one of my first graders brought in two dresses that she didn't need anymore.  Katie brought in the most beautiful bassinet for Yi Mei.  Anna brought in a stuffed frog that plays lullabyes - "in case Yi Mei gets lonely at night".  The Toney family brought in several books that have Chinese and English words- I know she will love these!



Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Another Glitch

Fortunately the Consulate sent my incorrect dossier  back and I was able to thread all of the staples through by hand.  I am so grateful for Maureen's help with that.  Not only did she help with the staples; she found an error that the MO Secretary of State had made.  I managed to get downtown two minutes before the downtown office closed. Everything was mailed out again last Saturday. 

Just when I thought I was through, I found out that singles now have to file two additonal forms.  I have had to do many ridiculous things since I have started this process, but the latest tops them all.  The Chinese government now requires singles to write a statement verifying they are heterosexual.  This even tops the photos that I had Rhonda take of me cooking, sewing and reading with every inch of my skin covered.   Of course, no family pets were allowed in the picture- dogs are considered a meal in China.  These requirements remind me how fortunate I am to live in a country where women are perceived very differently.

These two new forms will also have to go to the Secretary of State and the Consulate in Chicago.  I was so worried about my staple error and the time it cost me.  It looks like my process will be delayed anyway.
All this has been a reminder that I cannot control this process.  God is in control and will bring Yi Mei at the right time.  It is also a reminder that I need to get better about asking for help.  Thank goodness Craig is willing to take the new documents downtown tomorrow and I will be able to fed ex these new documents to the embassy by Saturday.  I am still hoping that I can get my dossier to China by Jan. 1st.